Tag Archive | relationships

MY STANDARDS ARE VALID

So I have good news my wonderful readers: I got published again! *screams hysterically* Weekend Star, a pretty cool national newspaper (with an inside magazine) has published me again, both on print and on their online-site. I’m super excited of course, ‘valid dreams’ and all. Oh well, HERE is the official link…however, not all of […]

I FEAR FOR OUR DAUGHTERS

About 2 weeks ago… “Zee, with all the Mollis-tape hype, I’m surprised you haven’t written anything about it…” One of my friends commented. “Well, it’s a tricky issue, didn’t know which side to take.” I replied. “Oh yeah? What do you mean?” Her. “Well, I couldn’t tell whether it was rape or just another ‘drama-ful’ […]

BAGGAGE CLAIM…

It has been minutes, maybe hours, I can’t tell. I have been staring at my finger with a big smile on my face. The sparkling ring around it is not gigantic, but it’s not tiny either. Adam proposed yesterday night. The look on his face when he went down on his knees, will forever stay […]

THE EX-GAME (The TerminEX Game)

You know how it’s a felony to talk about your ex with your next, or potential next… Well, sometimes you cannot help it. It could be because your ex meant so much to you, and for a long while, that even though it’s over, it doesn’t erase his existence or influence. It could also be […]

SOCIETY LIES #1 : The Bad Boy Real Effect

Bad boys. They have that magical allure and magnetic pull that girls cannot seem to resist. It is said that women would turn down men who are too nice and always available, but yearn for a man who is a bit standoffish, and kind of a jerk. Like being rather mean makes a man attractive. […]

YOUR RIGHT TO HAVE EXPECTATIONS

They say if you expect nothing from anybody, you are never disappointed. I say that is bull. Now I have no doubt that the likes of Sylvia Plath and Patricia McCormick are considered good at coming up with great quotes, but I have a bone of contention with this particular quote. They make it sound […]

WHAT DO I LOOK FOR IN A GUY?

What do you look for in a guy? Who do you consider boyfriend material? People have asked me this quite a number of times before. At first I used to give them a whole list of qualities, you know, the ones we see a lot in more than a few Facebook groups. Then there came […]